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Dwarves and Friends – Episode 16
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This week Meg and Kiran continue to explore the natural allies of our Avatars. Specifically Dwarves. And who is a better example of this than Paul Hollywood, or Leah Remini, or Meg’s favorite Dwarf: Chris…
Read MoreHobbit and Friends – Episode 15
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This week Meg and Kiran get back to exploring the natural allies of our Avatars. Specifically Hobbits! And who is a better example of this than Paul McCartney (Hobbit) and John Lennon (Elf). Or Joanna…
Read MoreHow To Get A Gnome to Stop Talking, How much Sugar Is Too Much For A Fairy, And Other Questions – Episode 14
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This week Meg and Kiran answer your questions! Zurich: apparently it’s the land of brunch, champagne and cocaine, is this Elf land? And are there other cities that call in specific Avatars? Can a Fairy…
Read MoreHow To Find Your Personal Style! – Episode 13
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This week Meg and Kiran answer 2 listener questions, both about personal style! We all notice that those people who seem to have found the fashion that makes them look good, expresses their authentic self,…
Read MoreHumans and Friends – Episode 12
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This week Meg and Kiran go into details about how the Human avatar connects with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. It’s a good chance to hack your own relationship with a…
Read MoreGnome and Friends – Episode 11
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This week Meg had a deep and delightful conversation with an old friend, a gnome. Kiran and Meg go into details about how gnomes connect with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. It’s…
Read MoreFairy and Friends – Episode 10
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Another question came in! A Fairy friend asking about key relationships in her life. Kiran and Meg go into details about how Fairies connect with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. Its a…
Read MoreWhat Avatar Am I? – Episode 9
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The most common question we have received so far has been, “But what Avatar am I?” and “Can I be a mix of a Avatars? A hybrid?” And the short answer is no. But you…
Read MoreAligned Avatars – Episode 8
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Each avatar has a feeling, like a vibe, when they are in a healthy and well regulated alignment. Kiran and Meg go into details about what that internal harmony is and the unique rhythm of…
Read MoreDwarfland – Episode 7
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Kiran just got back from seeing the new Fast & Furious movie. And Meghan spent the weekend rescuing a cactus from an industrial small town. How does this all equate to identifying the beauty of…
Read MoreFight Club – Episode 6
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Each avatar has their own unique type of rage. In this week’s pod Kiran & Meg discuss how each get their ‘hackles up’ and go into a white hot rage and then collapse. Its fun…
Read MoreCelebrities and Compromise – Episode 5
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In this week’s pod Kiran & Meg discuss some well known celebrities, their friends and couples, to point out how we have a tendency to impose our own avatar proclivities on another under the excuse…
Read MoreIdeal Homes for Avatars – Episode 4
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K&M go into the details about the ideal home environment for our avatars. But who doesn’t love a hobbit house? Show Notes Dermot Bannon:(elf design) https://www.dermotbannonarchitects.ie/portfolio-category/portfolio/ Ben and Erin Napier, Home Town:(hobbit design) https://scotsmangeneralstore.com/ Martha Stuart Home:(dwarf…
Read MoreAre You a Hobbit? Part III – Episode 3
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K&M decode dwarves and humans! And answer some key questions. Show Notes These Instagram profiles are great examples of each Avatar: Scroll through and see if you can identify the key traits! Fairy: Instagram: @shifferdiane…
Read MoreAre You a Hobbit? Part II – Episode 2
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K&M go into the details about Elves and Gnomes and answer some key questions! Show Notes Fairy: Essence Elves: Ideas Hobbits: Material Form Gnomes: Information Dwarves: Principles Humans: Roles These Instagram profiles are great examples…
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