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It's like the journal I started in 2005, but with less furious scribbles, watermarks from my tears and various snacks....But now I’ve included more field guides, articles, book excerpts, and loads of juicy stuff.

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Elves and Friends - Episode 17

Dwarves and Friends – Episode 16

This week Meg and Kiran continue to explore the natural allies of our Avatars. Specifically Dwarves. And who is a better example of this than Paul Hollywood, or Leah Remini, or Meg’s favorite Dwarf: Chris…

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Elves and Friends - Episode 17

Hobbit and Friends – Episode 15

This week Meg and Kiran get back to exploring the natural allies of our Avatars. Specifically Hobbits! And who is a better example of this than Paul McCartney (Hobbit) and John Lennon (Elf). Or Joanna…

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Elves and Friends - Episode 17

How To Get A Gnome to Stop Talking, How much Sugar Is Too Much For A Fairy, And Other Questions – Episode 14

This week Meg and Kiran answer your questions! Zurich: apparently it’s the land of brunch, champagne and cocaine, is this Elf land? And are there other cities that call in specific Avatars? Can a Fairy…

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How To Find Your Personal Style! – Episode 13

This week Meg and Kiran answer 2 listener questions, both about personal style! We all notice that those people who seem to have found the fashion that makes them look good, expresses their authentic self,…

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Humans and Friends – Episode 12

This week Meg and Kiran go into details about how the Human avatar connects with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. It’s a good chance to hack your own relationship with a…

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Gnome and Friends – Episode 11

This week Meg had a deep and delightful conversation with an old friend, a gnome. Kiran and Meg go into details about how gnomes connect with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. It’s…

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Fairy and Friends – Episode 10

Another question came in! A Fairy friend asking about key relationships in her life. Kiran and Meg go into details about how Fairies connect with other Avatars, and which ones are a natural match. Its a…

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What Avatar Am I? – Episode 9

The most common question we have received so far has been, “But what Avatar am I?” and “Can I be a mix of a Avatars? A hybrid?” And the short answer is no. But you…

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Aligned Avatars – Episode 8

Each avatar has a feeling, like a vibe, when they are in a healthy and well regulated alignment. Kiran and Meg go into details about what that internal harmony is and the unique rhythm of…

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Elves and Friends - Episode 17

Dwarfland – Episode 7

Kiran just got back from seeing the new Fast & Furious movie. And Meghan spent the weekend rescuing a cactus from an industrial small town. How does this all equate to identifying the beauty of…

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Fight Club – Episode 6

Each avatar has their own unique type of rage. In this week’s pod Kiran & Meg discuss how each get their ‘hackles up’ and go into a white hot rage and then collapse. Its fun…

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Celebrities and Compromise – Episode 5

In this week’s pod Kiran & Meg discuss some well known celebrities, their friends and couples, to point out how we have a tendency to impose our own avatar proclivities on another under the excuse…

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Ideal Homes for Avatars – Episode 4

K&M go into the details about the ideal home environment for our avatars. But who doesn’t love a hobbit house? Show Notes Dermot Bannon:(elf design) https://www.dermotbannonarchitects.ie/portfolio-category/portfolio/ Ben and Erin Napier, Home Town:(hobbit design) https://scotsmangeneralstore.com/ Martha Stuart Home:(dwarf…

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Are You a Hobbit? Part III – Episode 3

K&M decode dwarves and humans! And answer some key questions. Show Notes These Instagram profiles are great examples of each Avatar: Scroll through and see if you can identify the key traits!  Fairy: Instagram: @shifferdiane…

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Are You a Hobbit? Part II – Episode 2

K&M go into the details about Elves and Gnomes and answer some key questions! Show Notes  Fairy: Essence Elves: Ideas Hobbits: Material Form Gnomes: Information Dwarves: Principles Humans: Roles These Instagram profiles are great examples…

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