Welcome to the blog
It's like the journal I started in 2005, but with less furious scribbles, watermarks from my tears and various snacks....But now I’ve included more field guides, articles, book excerpts, and loads of juicy stuff.

Kiran’s Ultimate Guide to Successful Online Dating
Includes: how to navigate the dating scene as a man or woman*, why men send pics of their junk and the downlow on ghosting. *In this article, ‘men’ refers to those persons that identify as…
Read MoreUltimate Tips for Mindful Dating | The A-Z of Modern Dating
Many nuances to romantic and sexual expression abound – and dating is an absolutely beautiful process to discover them! However, it’s also super complicated to navigate the modern dating landscape. Where conventional dating etiquettes can…
Read MoreEnding a relationship with consciousness & love
In this chat, Kiran is inquiring about why we hold on too long, and how we can let go in a way that creates a new agreement that remains friendly and loving moving forward.
Read MoreWhat we don’t understand about sexuality and misconduct
In this talk, Kiran speaks about the conversation nobody is having around sex. Recorded at the 2018 Science and Non-Duality conference in San Jose, CA.
Read MoreHow to Heal a Relationship Worth Saving
Romantic relationships can be wonderful to experience, but they also have a way of putting us through hell. What makes them so painful? And how can we heal a relationship and find them less challenging?…
Read MoreMaking the best of Pornography
Can pornography be the best sexual education tool? There’s a recent article in the New York Times titled Let’s Ban Porn, which reminds me of the Oscar Wilde quote: There is no such thing…
Read MoreWhat is “Monogamish” and is it the answer to infidelity?
What exactly is monogamish? Is this the real answer to the age-old problem of infidelity? Last summer, while leading a training session for my Mastery Class community, I spent a few days going into great…
Read MoreAssume Diversity
I had some friends over this past weekend, and eventually—as it always seems to happen—politics came into the conversation. And because it just goes around and around and around, driving everyone batty, I wanted…
Read MoreTop 5 strategies for being with family or friends who vote for “the other side”
If we are being truly honest, the holiday season can be a very awkward time. There is all this social pressure around being together and being happy. There is a deep conceptual groove that…
Read MoreOur world in turmoil can be a great thing!
Last weekend I was driving up a mountain pass, up about fifty miles of winding narrow road. It was pouring rain and the trees that lined the road were giving off a thick mist,…
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